The Caulbearer

 

“Virtue has a veil.” Victor Hugo

My daughter was born with a caul, or a hood, or a veil over her face.  She is what is correctly termed a   Caulbearer, or the one “born behind the veil.”

It is estimated that only one out of 80,000 babies are born with a caul – delivered at birth with some amnion membrane covering the face.2017-04-18_10-38-23

In many cultures, a Caulbearer is believed to be blessed, destined for greatness or to have a special destiny, to possess psychic abilities and be a bringer of good luck. They are said to be able to predict changes in weather patterns, find underground water supplies and are natural healers.

The caul itself is purported to be a talisman against drowning, a personal protection against the evil-eye and an object that brings good luck in business.

For the longest time, I didn’t know about the existence of Caulbearers, stumbling upon this topic only recently, but perhaps not accidentally.

It is fascinating to know that there are such beings among us.

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True Dreams

 

 

“No, there was nothing unusual in any of these dreams as dreams. They were merely displaced in Time.”

― J.W. Dunne, An Experiment with Time

 

I have vague memories as a young girl. I only started remembering life, clearly as it happens, when I turned 12. It was also when I started having true dreams.

 

The one that I remember most vividly is a vision of myself in an airport check-in counter, looking my usual Type A self, with two children in tow – one was a boy and the other was a curly –haired girl. I knew it was a boy because he was playing with a car, and the curly-haired girl was towing in turn a rag doll.

 

So was the truth revealed to me when I was still in my teens. I, who never wanted to have children, will have two. The first one will be a boy and the next one, a girl with curls. And that eventually, I will be working and living abroad.

 

When I was pregnant with my first child, I was beautifully radiant – even I was amazed at how good I looked. Everybody was complimenting me on my looks, my OB-GYNE wanted me to join a pregnant ladies beauty contest which for me was a truly, truly amusing idea. Everybody was saying that my child will be a girl because I was so pretty.

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When the time came for the ultrasound, everyone was equally astounded that it was a boy. But of course, I was not. When it was my daughter’s turn, she did not disappoint – she had curls like Shirley Temple.

 

Dream done and dusted.

 

From experience, the truest dreams and premonitions come in the wee hours of the morning, that time before dawn, just before waking.

 

Dream and remember.

 

 

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Adelaide vs. Melbourne

 

 

Listen to advice, but follow your heart. – Conway Twitty

 

Dear Ms. Emily,

 

I am conflicted. I have lived for some time now in Adelaide and have settled down quite nicely. However, I have recently bagged a great job in Melbourne in a once in a lifetime opportunity. My wife is pregnant with our first child and our baby is due almost at the same time we are supposed to move to Melbourne, so the stress of moving to another city, having my first child and taking on a new job all at the same time, is really high. I have a good job here in Adelaide but our hearts (my wife and I) are quite set on Melbourne. My dilemma is – should we stay in Adelaide or move to Melbourne? – Conflicted First Time Dad

 

Dear Conflicted First Time Dad,

 

It seems to me that the answer to your dilemma is already clear to you.

Here are some questions that could help you make the correct decision for you and your family:

 

  1. How does your wife feel about the move to Melbourne? Are you in agreement as to what is best for your little family?
  2. Are you up to managing all the details moving will entail – leaving the old job and accommodations, transferring medical records, finding suitable new lodgings, taking on a new job? Do you have the strength to carry this through?
  3. And most importantly, what does your heart say?

 

Ultimately, the best advice is the one your heart tells you.

 

Hope this helped.

 

 

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Distraught Doctor

 

 

Nobody can give you wiser advice than yourself.  Marcus Tullius Cicero

 

Dear Ms. Emily,

 

I am a doctor by profession, but my calling did not protect me from falling for a good for nothing husband.  We have been married for five years, stayed together for only 1 month during this time, but managed to have two kids between us.  My kids are the only saving factor in our relationship.  They are sweet, intelligent beings who deserve all my love. We are still married, and see each other on and off, despite the numerous women and lack of monetary support.  I still accept him when he comes around, and I keep on believing that he will change for me and the kids.  Am I correct in doing so?  — Distraught Doctor

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Dear Distraught Doctor,

 

Deep in your heart, I know you know the truth – that your husband will not change his erring ways for any one. If he values you and your kids, he would have made a deliberate effort to show his love and respect.

 

If you stay married for the sake of the kids, please don’t. Kids are more perceptive that we give them credit for. Do you think this irregular set-up gives them the stability and happy home life they need and deserve?

 

If you stay married because you still have feelings for the guy despite all his shortcomings, then you are either a modern day martyr, or a sucker for all things painful.

 

Have a good look at your life, a good heart-to-heart talk with the kids, and take stock of your situation. Don’t shortchange, and in the process rob yourself of the chance to find true love and your kids of a happy and content mother.

 

Perhaps now is the right time to move on.

 

Hope this helped.

 

 

 

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